Saturday, 21 November 2015
Top 10 questions I get asked - they are in more or less the same order each time.
1. Is it painful
2. Will I be the same size
3. Were you worried about Infection
4. Have you got a floppy head
5. How long until I am back to normal
6. Does it look/feel real
7. Will new partners notice
8. How easy is it to inflate/deflate
9. Will I have the same feeling
10. Will I still be able to orgasm
For me prior to surgery
More than anything I wanted to speak/meet someone who had actually got an implant. The doctors told me the technical side and I saw and felt an implant. What I wanted to know was how it would feel inside me, how my penis would feel and look with an implant. I had been told by the doctor that once done there was no going back and although I knew I wanted and needed it done the lack of physical knowledge added to my anxiety.
Sunday, 15 November 2015
Thursday, 12 November 2015
My response to a follower who is at about Day 25 post surgery
Sounds like you are heading in the right direction and even better that you have managed to get off the painkillers.
Inflating can be difficult to start. In my case even though outwardly most of my swelling had gone I know that inside my scrotum was still swollen making especially the deflate button difficult to operate. Once the swelling has gone completely it becomes so much easier.
I am sure the length will return. With me it took some time for the shaft tissue to relax properly - and it will. Even now on a cold day fully inflated can be feel/be different from when I am warm. It is definitely a case of learning the best technique for you. I normally inflate mine first thing in the morning just after I wake up. Warm and in bed the tissue is much more supple and I believe that because of that I get the best stretch.
I expect you have driven by now. For me it wasn't the discomfort of physically driving so much as the shape of the drivers seat which with the car I had seemed to push my scrotum upwards. Again as time goes on technique makes it easier.
As you say visually you would never know there was anything different. Again as time goes on it will feel more and more natural. There is no getting away from the fact that you have what feels like and extra testicle in there (I’ve used it to my advantage) it definitely adds to an opening conversation and you can guarantee they wont have heard that line before 😊