Top 10 Questions

Top 10 questions I get asked - they are in more or less the same order each time.

1.       Is it painful

2.       Will I be the same size

3.       Were you worried about Infection

4.       Have you got a floppy head

5.       How long until I am back to normal

6.       Does it look/feel real

7.       Will new partners notice

8.       How easy is it to inflate/deflate

9.       Will I have the same feeling

10.   Will I still be able to orgasm

For me prior to surgery

More than anything I wanted to speak/meet someone who had actually got an implant.  The doctors told me the technical side and I saw and felt an implant.  What I wanted to know was how it would feel inside me, how my penis would feel and look with an implant.  I had been told by the doctor that once done there was no going back and although I knew I wanted and needed it done the lack of physical knowledge added to my anxiety.

Picture Update

I have not posted any pictures for quite a while so thought I would let you see how it looks at 

two years.

Deflated

After 10 pumps

Fully Inflated - Different Angle

Questions & Answers

My response to a follower who is at about Day 25 post surgery

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Sounds like you are heading in the right direction and even better that you have managed to get off the painkillers.

Inflating can be difficult to start. In my case even though outwardly most of my swelling had gone I know that inside my scrotum was still swollen making especially the deflate button difficult to operate.  Once the swelling has gone completely it becomes so much easier.

I am sure the length will return. With me it took some time for the shaft tissue to relax properly - and it will. Even now on a cold day fully inflated can be feel/be different from when I am warm.  It is definitely a case of learning the best technique for you.  I normally inflate mine first thing in the morning just after I wake up.  Warm and in bed the tissue is much more supple and I believe that because of that I get the best stretch.

I expect you have driven by now.  For me it wasn't the discomfort of physically driving so much as the shape of the drivers seat which with the car I had seemed to push my scrotum upwards.  Again as time goes on technique makes it easier.

As you say visually you would never know there was anything different.  Again as time goes on it will feel more and more natural.  There is no getting away from the fact that you have what feels like and extra testicle in there (I’ve used it to my advantage) it definitely adds to an opening conversation and you can guarantee they wont have heard that line before 😊

Blogging on the move

Finally l have managed to figure out posting via my phone.

While l am out and about l see things relevant to my take on having an implant.

Now as l see it l can blog about it.

Get ready for all sorts....

Dave

Technique two years on

Two years ago I was writing that I was unable to find the pump among the “mush” inside my scrotum let alone squeeze it hard enough to get anything like an erection.  Then I managed to inflate it only to find that I could not locate the deflate button.  

Over the last two years my technique has improved beyond all measure to the extent that I am now able to have a pretty much spontaneous erection whenever and wherever I wish – giving me I would have thought what most men dream about - or was it just me!!

Anyway to continue.

A couple of other discoveries I wanted to share - the initial size of my erection most definitely depends on how warm I am.  I assume the cold affects how supple the implant tubes are.  Warm I can with 40 or so squeezes inflate easily and quickly to a full erection.  I can also after a couple of minutes squeeze a couple more times and inflate a bit more.  Cooler there are a couple of slight changes. 15-20 inflation squeezes and the bulb becomes hard and I cannot squeeze it any further – don’t get me wrong, my penis is hard, just that initially it is slightly smaller than when warm.  The difference here I assume is that the first inflation puts body temperature saline into the implant, as it enters it warms up the tubes again making them supple meaning I can continue to inflate fully.  Either way I end up with the same result.

I always try to deflate fully however I still occasionally get slight spontaneous inflations during the day, why I don’t know but pushing the deflate button and a squeeze of the shaft deflates me again. 

I have also noticed in the last year or so that without any sort of spontaneous inflation of the implant I get on a regular basis what I can only describe as a semi, no reason for it, it just happens.  The button and a squeeze does nothing meaning it is not the same as the other daytime inflations I get.  They come and go as they please.  Whatever the cause I am not complaining.  Perhaps my body is returning to its old self – admittedly it closer to my old self at 16 rather than 50 but my old self just the same.

Dave

Seamless Underwear

Found these on ebay

Keeps everything in place without being too tight and no seams.

Dave

Update and Seamless Underwear

I have not posted for a few weeks so thought I would give you a quick update.

A couple of things:-

It is starting to get a bit cooler here and although nothing like the winter temperatures to come I am beginning to feel the changes in my implant that cooler temperatures bring.  Like I have said before the effect of cold is not too different from how it was pre-implant in as much as everything - shaft and scrotum - becomes tighter. There is no pain just a different feel.  When deflated the implant within becomes firmer the cooler it and I am however once inflated with body temperature saline the suppleness returns.

The other thing and more importantly for me - I have found some "seam free" underwear.

The end of my penis and foreskin can at times become sore.  I am not convinced it is anything to do with my implant but more due to where the end of my penis sits now, which is right on the seam of other underwear I have worn.  The normal design I presume is to keep everything in place.  These still do that but without in my case the rubbing that I have with every other type of underwear I have tried.

No seam = less rubbing = less soreness!!

Next post, a link and and underwear fashion show...

Dave